Eulogy

Our beloved John “Manu” left this world and left many of us disoriented because, although he was a regular and imperfect man, he has become a giant in our lives and memories. His enormous gravitational field pulled everyone in. He did this by being unflinchingly obedient and faithful in every aspect of his life. He became one of the few men of whom we can say he is being and doing exactly who and what God wants of him. He was the best friend that is so much more – the one who always has your back, the voice that always lifts, your person who will help at every turn, a constant source of creativity and ideas, a giant heart that deeply cares about everyone and everything, all the time. He commanded every room he entered not by being the loudest but by caring the most. He searched out and found the good in every soul he met, genuinely relating to the greatness he saw in each of us.  And in the most difficult moments, through God’s grace, he was a well of faith and hope.

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John’s story continues through the people whose lives he touched.

If you have a favorite memory or story about John, we’d love for you to share it here. After review, we’ll add it to this memorial so family and friends can enjoy it for years to come.

I hope that everyone, at some point, finds a friend like I did with you, John Bejenaru. My life is not the same because you came into it. My life will not be the same now that you’re gone.

See you again someday.

“Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.” – Colossians 3:12

John Dwyer

Mister John” was always calm. One particularly crazy Christmas Eve service when they were short on volunteers, I was alone with a teen volunteer and about 15 three-year-olds, with about half of them crying. I saw John in the hallway. I was feeling panicked and motioned for him to come over. John glanced in the door and said one word, “bubbles”

He came back with a bubble machine, and sure enough, every little one stopped crying immediately. John was always calm, no matter how crazy it was in Family Ministry. He had such a steady and welcoming presence. I’ll always carry that example of what it means to be a thermostat, not a thermometer, in situations.

Evelyn

I don’t know what to say. Words like “I’m sorry for your loss” or “My condolences” don’t even come close. Although I haven’t spoken with him for many years now, John was a friend and an inspiration. As the drama teacher, I worked side by side with him at Stranahan when we were both babies (so to speak) close to 30 years ago and I think of him often…. The stories he told about life in Romania …. and his laugh!

He was the first Christian that I had ever met that was truly a man of faith who loved UNCONDITIONALLY. He saw ME. And he looked for the truth of the person in anyone he met.

My heart is heavy as I read this. May his family find peace in knowing that John has made a difference in the lives of more people than anyone will ever know. The world was a better place with him in it but his light will be carried on by all those who were blessed to have known him.

Jason Z

I’ve known Manu through some of the most defining seasons of my life. Before I was married, there was a moment when I had to move out and didn’t really have a place to go. Manu and Dia didn’t hesitate—they welcomed me into their townhome. It wasn’t big, but they made it work. That was who they were.

That time stayed with me. I got to witness the beginning of their family—to see their firstborn come into this world. I remember simple nights together… watching movies from a laptop, projecting them onto the wall—before that was even a normal thing. Nothing fancy, just life, shared honestly.

And Manu was always present—not just with words, but with action. Whether it was advice or just showing up with his hands ready to help… he was involved in my life in a real, consistent way.

Later, when my future wife came to the U.S., Manu and Dia were right there with us. I still have pictures from 2002—moments that marked the start of our life together, like celebrating her birthday. As newlyweds, we weren’t doing life alone—they were part of it, walking alongside us.

In church, especially in the Romanian community, Manu was the engine behind so much. The choir, the worship, the activities… he carried a lot, often quietly. And with the youth, whenever we gathered, he brought energy—leading games, connecting people, making things happen. He had that rare ability to step in and lift the whole atmosphere.

That’s how I’ll always remember him—steady, involved, giving, and fully present in the lives around him.

Marius

John was one of few men in my life that could see my brokenness and still love me. He knew how to put his head down and work and still see others around him while bringing out the best in them.

I’m forever grateful to have known him and to have been changed by his friendship. Him passing hit me like a ton of bricks.

Dia, Mark, and Jason, you’re in my prayers and on my mind. 💔

Jared –

💔 Never have I met someone who represented Jesus more than John. Will be missed.

Joey

John such a servant, a helper, and a master problem solver! He simply couldn’t help himself from stepping in whenever he saw someone in need. His goal was always to help us, make our jobs easier, and to teach us along the way – and patient beyond belief.

I miss him so much. His smiling eyes and contagious laughter always made my heart happy. I look forward to seeing him again in Heaven.

I am praying for you and your family.

Lori

He was most certainly a giant of the faith and has definitely gone on to be a giant elsewhere, well said! He left an amazing legacy behind!!! One that will cause more ripple effects that will echo into eternity than any of us will ever fully know. His faithful life continues to point others to Christ, and that is a legacy that never ends.

Jennifer

Hi. My name is Ethan. And when Mom showed me the funeral photo, I asked if it was a cruel joke or something that I didn’t know about and then I realized she was serious. Why are people being taken from their families for no reason? Why are people being taken from me? I will always remember you, Buddy. I miss you, Mr John Bejenaru. I miss the times where I just thought ‘this is a guy who cares and wants me to succeed’ I remember how hard you worked and how much you connected with me on a personal level. I’ll be turning 12 in a few days, and I want you to know that I’ll make you proud.

Thank you for the memories…

Ethan

John was one of the most generous, kind, and authentic people I’ve ever known. It was truly an honor to serve alongside him. Without a shadow of a doubt, I know he heard the words, “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

Jess –

I will miss my friend. John as I reflect on the years we have worked together in ministry, one thing that stands out is how much you appreciated me showing up. It is my pleasure to serve, but you always stopped me to thank me for serving. And you are one of the few servants who remembered my name. In such a big church, you made it smaller with your constant acknowledgement. I spoke to another friend of mine and she said the same thing, he always called me by my name. It was like you knew it meant a lot to us. Thank you for your service, thank you for showing up even when you went through some dark seasons with your health. I am learning so much through your suffering and passing. I know we need to make every day count and I will make more of an effort to know Gods servants by their name. 🙏🏽 Thank you

Simone Gibson –

When you leave your phone unattended, you get pictures of John😂. I found the photo burst collection a few days after he took them. I loved how he always made us laugh😂

Lori Watkins

The first day I walked into choir class at South Plantation highschool in 10th grade after spending two years as a missionary kid in Romania, my new teacher asked everyone in the class where Anca Bejenaru was and whoever was Romanian in the classroom to stand up. With two others standing with myself and Anca, I heard the choir director tell us about a guy named Manu. He told us about his dedication and top notch skill in music. He told us how he missed his “senior conductor”. He then showed us some videos of the choir at Disney and in many different concert events. Then he told us all that he was one of the nicest people he had ever met and that we have huge shoes to fill. Unknown to him, I had already seen Manu as a director and singer in the choir at my cousin’s church. Unknown to many, Manu for the last two years gave our families so much knowledge and comfort in dealing with multiple people with cancer. He was always strong and yet at the same time soft spoken. I will never forget the example he was for many. But most importantly I will never forget his goodness. God surely knew what he was doing when he blessed Manu with so many talents. He can now sing and conduct in the only place fit for an angel like him to conduct for his Creator and Lord.

Philip Bucur –

My name is Sheamell, and I had the privilege of knowing John Bejenaru, A.K.A Mr. B, during my years at Stranahan High School from 1999 to 2003.

I took all of his chorus classes, including Women’s Chorus, Beginning Chorus, and Mixed Chorus. My husband, Pedro, was also one of his students in the Men’s Choir and piano class.

Mr. B was an incredible teacher and an even more amazing person. He was funny, kind, supportive, and a father figure to so many of us who needed one. He had a special gift for seeing potential in you long before you could see it in yourself. In fact, I met my husband in one of his classes, and for that, I will always be grateful.

He was the kind of teacher you looked forward to visiting even after graduating because he made such a lasting impact on your life. His kindness, encouragement, and genuine care for his students will never be forgotten.

My heartfelt condolences to his family, friends, and everyone whose life he touched. Mr. B was truly one of a kind, and he was taken from us far too soon. May he rest in peace.

Sheamell Balcazar

The Lord called his good and faithful servant home. I take comfort in knowing the blessing, John gave my grandson Rory at his baptism will echo through generations.

Denise Krapf

My heart goes to his wife…

Maria Benjamin

I’ve been at Calvary my whole life and attended CCA. I grew up and graduated alongside his son Jason, and in high school his other son Mark taught my keyboard class. I bet he was an amazing father. Growing up going to Calvary Sunday school, I would always see him in the kids ministry. He always had a smile on his face and truly cared about all the kids lives being poured into. These past few years whenever he would see me walking by he would always say “hi August!”. It’s only two words but they always conveyed how genuine he was. It’s so easy to just keep walking, look the other way, or politely smile, but he would always greet me and remembered my name. Just a simple exchange with him made you feel cared for and seen. Though I didn’t know him well or on a personal level, seeing him at Calvary for years like I’ve said, you could tell how genuine of a person he was, how selfless he was, and how he really cared about the people he interacted with. He had a warm personality that’s hard to put into words. He will be so missed by so many.

August Miller

I work at CCA and one afternoon after work I got into my car and it wouldn’t start. I was alone and had no idea what I was going to do. I got out of the car and started to call my son. This man was walking to his car in the parking lot. He must have heard me talking on the phone and saw I was distressed and he asked me if I needed help. I didn’t know who he was and he didn’t know me but he helped me jump start my car and told me to drive safely to get a new battery. He introduced himself and told me his name is John. I could not thank him enough for stopping and helping me with my car. He truly is an angel here on earth and now in heaven. My deepest condolences for your loss.

Marcia Soares

I had a chance to work with him in Calvary Kids before Covid. He was always kind to me and my children. What I remembered the most was one Summer I asked him why the Kids Conference fee went up so high compared to the year before. He kindly took the time out of his busy schedule to explain why it was so. I felt heard, respected and not ashamed for asking. John is missed immensely by my family.

Myrlande Bowen

John was a humble and faithful man whose life reflected his deep love for our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. He walked with integrity, served with joy, and embraced every responsibility with diligence and excellence. His unwavering faith was evident in the way he led, loved, and encouraged those around him. As a devoted husband and father, he placed his family and the people he served at the center of his heart, demonstrating Christ’s love through patience, kindness, and selfless sacrifice. John was truly a man of God whose character inspired me and my family to grow in faith and trust in the Lord. His joyful spirit, steadfast commitment, and servant’s heart were a blessing to everyone who knew him.
“But as for you, be strong and do not give up, for your work will be rewarded.”
—2 Chronicles 15:7

Carlos Torres & Family

I served at the kids ministry in calvary from ages 8 to 20. John was such a prominent person in my memories when I think back to those precious times. He was always smiling, and helping. Leading people, helping with name tags, saying hi to everyone who walked by with a smile. Although this was devastating news, what a blessing it is to know he is with our Lord and savior. The Lord shined through him so clearly. He was and will continue to be a blessing in so lives. To his family, thank you for walking along side him throughout his life, for all the love you poured into him overflowed into others.

Caroliny Jeremias

I was attending a volunteer gathering at John’s residence. I felt awkward because I was in a home of someone that I didn’t personally know. However, he came up to me and we sat and we talked with me as if we were good friends. He made me feel so welcomed. He showed so much hospitality, kindness, humility, and friendliness towards me. He took away that awkward feeling that I felt. I will miss seeing him in the Halls and the hugs. May the father welcome him home.

Archarna

I’m deeply saddened to hear of John’s passing. It’s a tremendous loss to all who knew him but certainly Heaven’s gain to welcome such a good and faithful servant home. I met John as a Volunteer in Children’s Ministry. He was always kind and welcoming to everyone. I discussed with him that I was going through the process for my son to enroll at CCA. John immediately offered himself to be put as a reference for my son Josh. I was so appreciative and in subsequent years my son would later become a Youth Volunteer with John. It was a full circle moment to have Josh under John’s leadership. He will be greatly missed. And I offer my sincere condolences to his entire family.

Karen Payne

John brought my entire family into Kids Ministry. While the volunteers served families, John served the volunteers. The lasting impact is immeasurable.

Trevor Hamilton

Mr. John loved serving people because he loved serving the Lord. Though I didn’t know him incredibly well, one of my long-lasting observations of Mr. John is that he both lived and modeled the Colossians 3:23 lifestyle: to do everything he did for the glory of his Creator. One such moment was on a Sunday in 2022 while I was serving in Kid’s Ministry for the 9:00 a.m. service. He didn’t only find out that it was my 15th birthday, he got all the volunteers to wish me a happy birthday and surprised me with an Oreo milkshake – my favorite. On another occasion, he heard of a difficult situation that my family was going through and decided to deliver a free meal to us. In addition to the above, I’ve witnessed dozens of instances how he has blessed others in a similar manner. Public and private, he was an example of a biblical servant in action. “Blessed is the man who remains steadfast under trial, for when he has stood the test he will receive the crown of life, which God has promised to those who love him.” – James 1:12 Well done brother.

E.S.

I met John a few years ago when my son Emmanuel and cousin Emorie, both volunteered for God’s guys, from six grade to the ninth grade. I’ve never seen such a kind ministry leader who was always smiling and very present in the children’s ministry no matter where you turned John was right there! Me and the family ended up moving from Broward County to Kississme Florida, six years ago and one Sunday while visiting the church we were upstairs in the children’s ministry picking up my niece when John walked over to greet me and my son Emmanuel, who was now much older and surprised that John still remembered him and his name even after six years ago! John, still smiling amd kind as always was very happy to see us. This news is such a shock to us. We had to share a few words for such a wonderful soul we got a chance to meet during his time on earth. My heart goes out to his family. But like the LORD Jesus Christ, said we will live again when we leave this world and John, is living his life surrounded by the endless love of our Savior! We will see you again John! May his family find peace and comfort during this time.

Hermione J

I remember starting at the grill and feeling heavy-hearted about not being able to attend services with my kids. When I shared this dilemma with John, he responded with such love and care. He insisted that just because I couldn’t attend service didn’t mean my children had to miss out. He made it a personal mission to arrange transportation for them to and from the grill so they could attend kids’ church. Whether it was John himself or another member of the ministry, he went above and beyond to ensure my children—and I—were served and cared for.

Nathalie michel

I’ll never forget the season I began working alongside John — my overseer, but really, my leader — in family ministry, starting back in 2016. We shared an office. I was new to ministry, newly married, and a father for the first time. And in that little shared space, John showed me who he was before he ever had to tell me. Love You Bej Man- B.Herb Whenever my son cried in that office, John would set down whatever he was doing, pick him up, and rock him — rubbing his forehead so gently, so patiently, until he settled. Every single time. That was “gentle” John. There were afternoons I’d come into that office frustrated — about ministry, about my marriage, about just being young and unsure of it all — and John would stop everything. He’d cross his hands, lean in, and listen like nothing else in the world mattered more than what I was saying. Then he’d offer wisdom that always, somehow, pointed me back to God and His word. He made me feel seen. Heard. That was “patient, discipling” John. When crisis hit — and in ministry, it always does — I’d watch him process it calmly, and he was almost always the first to respond with wisdom and love. That was “leader” John. And more than once, I’d hear how he was showing up for his wife and kids — cheering them on, making space for their dreams, honoring them in ways big and small. It always made me smile. That was “his first ministry is his family” John. Then there were the times he would let me grab his hands and lead him in our own rendition of ballroom dance, with laughter. Or the times John would jump in beatboxing sessions with me out of nowhere, no explanation needed. That was “let’s not take life so seriously” John. I remember walking past the chapel with him one day, right as a memorial service was letting out. He turned to me and said, “Brandon, memorials are always so sad. When I die, don’t cry for me — throw a party.” So that’s what I intend to do. John, I’m going to wear bright colors. I’m going to smile — a lot. Because you didn’t just teach me how to lead, or listen, or love my family well. You taught me how to hold difficulty and joy in the same hand, and to trust that a life spent for God’s glory is always, always worth celebrating.

Brandon Herbert

It was always a joy to serve with John when he always saw me he always smiled saying Goodmorning Kristal he always was smiling and made me feel welcome even when just joining Calvery but his sweet spirit was as if he known me for years . Him showing up to serve no matter what encourage me . Take care John until I see you again . Will miss you

Sis Kristal

It’s impossible to share a single story of John! If you knew him, you will have hundreds of stories! John was one of the most selfless and generous people I’ve ever met! Where he saw a need, he supplied it. No questions asked, no judgement, it was out of pure love and care! It was my first year working with him at Calvary Kids, and I came one morning to tell everyone the story of how in the middle of the night, my fan fell from the ceiling and now it was lying on the floor with wires all over the place, and I had to wait for the landlord to call an electrician. As soon as he heard about he asked if he could come fix and replace it with a new one. A few weeks later, a hurricane was coming, so we were advised to stay home. John called me and said “Hey Gaby, are you prepared for the hurricane? Do you have everything you need? Do I need to put down the shutters?” I was so surprised that he was checking on me, and he was ready to come and help me be ready! But this summarizes who John was, a very caring, loving, generous, selfless, smart, fun person! There are a few famous phrases that we would use all the time, that have impacted my live for ever, but one of the lessons that I mostly remember from him was: “Be approachable, smile, and walk slowly. Never be on a hurry” John genuinely loved people and he made sure to be available for anyone at any time! I will miss him so very much! Praying for you guys!

Gaby Guerrero

We served in kids ministry with John. My family and I would refer to him as “pastor John” because his spirit was always calm, loving and welcoming. He is always praying or helping someone. John will forever be remembered in our family.

Kenisha Hamilton

I saw John often around and about my time at kids ministry, always smiling and saying “hello” to people passing. One time, I was alone with a kiddo in Kings Kids and he came out of the blue and noticed and immediately jumped in to help out. He brought about a reassuring presence and soft smile that made the environemnt so calming. He carried a character that engaged with you, that wanted to know your story and who you are. Something that stood out most about him was the effect he had on the kids. especially Kings Kids. They would see him and light up just by his presence, he brought out this contagious smile and laughter in the kids and had a feverent love for them, and them for him. Praise God for a faithful servant.

Estefania C.

I loved serving Children’s Ministry with John. He so wanted the children learn it is fun to know and love Jesus. He lived it as he served those he served with. A most fun memory was his birthday in 2015 on a Saturday night. After service, Mr Mark, Miss Samantha and myself ran up to Mr John and absolutely covered him in silly string. You could barely see him. And he still loved us despite that. It probably took Dia a month to get the stuff washed off of his shirt. I really miss him and look forward to having fun with him in Heaven. Unfortunately I cannot locate the photo if this priceless event.

Joe Hall

The first times I met John he was so nervous to speak in front of people , he wasn’t funny and I told him that he just needs more practice later he turned out to be one of the funniest man I know. He was also a gentle giant , I’ll always cherish our friendship.

Joel Sonnenberg

Being at Calvary for so many years, I have seen many people come and go, but John is someone I will always remember. Every Sunday morning, he faithfully served with a smile. For many years, he helped my mom in her wheelchair, always greeting her with kindness, finding a good seat for her, opening doors, and making sure she felt welcomed and cared for. Those simple acts of compassion meant so much to our family. His gentle spirit and willingness to serve reflected the love of Christ in a very real way. I also admired his heart for volunteering. John never seemed to seek recognition. He simply showed up, served faithfully, and made a difference in the lives of so many people through his kindness, patience, and warm smile. His life is a beautiful reminder that even the smallest acts of love can leave a lasting impact. To John’s family, words cannot fully express how deeply sorry we are for your loss. We are grateful for the legacy of faith, love, and service that John leaves behind. He loved the Lord, served Him faithfully, and touched countless lives along the way. My prayer is that God will surround you with His peace, comfort, and strength during this difficult time, and that the precious memories of John’s life will continue to bring you hope and encouragement in the days ahead. His faithful service and Christ like example will never be forgotten.

Noemi Gastelu

John was always there to talk to when needed.. he always uplifts everyone he talks to .. miss you John 😔

Amanda DeJesus

I remember when my daughter was 2 years old and she was just acting up in class all the time John pulled us aside and had a talk that changed her life. She is now 16 and always acknowledges if it weren’t for John talking to you guys I wouldn’t probably be who I am today. She loved John so much ! She always ran to him and he would pick her up and hug her like his own daughter! Serving along side John in children’s ministry has been such a blessing and a joy! I can’t wait to see him on the other side and let him know how much he has meant to us.

Joann Bonet

John B was a truly remarkable person whose warmth and kindness made everyone feel welcome. My family and I were blessed to experience his genuine heart from the moment we joined the Calvary Kids 1 p.m. team. He created an environment where we didn’t just serve together—we became family. His authenticity, compassion, and joyful spirit left a lasting impact on all who knew him. We will forever cherish the memories we shared and carry his example with us as we continue serving others with the same love, grace, and wholeheartedness that he so beautifully demonstrated. His legacy will continue to live on in the countless lives he touched. May his memory continue to be a blessing to all who had the privilege of knowing him.

Geraldine & Emanuel Corneille